Symbolic Ceremonies in Europe: What They Are & Why Couples Love Them

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Dreaming of saying “I do” under the Italian sun or by a French chateau, but feeling confused about how the ceremony part works

Let’s clear that up. A symbolic ceremony is a meaningful, personalized way to exchange vows — no legal paperwork, no embassy visits, just pure emotion. For many couples planning a destination wedding in Europe, it’s the best way to celebrate without the stress of international red tape.

Multi Cultural symbolic ceremony at Villa Cimbrone in Amalfi Coast
Photo: Monika Frias

What Is a Symbolic Ceremony?

Simply put, a symbolic ceremony is not legally binding. It’s purely about the emotion, the moment, and the meaning behind your vows.

Most of our couples choose to complete the legal side of things in their home country before the big day. Then, they celebrate with a symbolic ceremony somewhere breathtaking in Europe. This approach gives you the freedom to design a ceremony that reflects you—without being bound by foreign legal requirements.

Symbolic doesn’t mean less special. In fact, it’s often more personal, more relaxed, and more moving than a traditional ceremony.

Couple exchanging vows in Sicily
Photo: Kelly Mour

Why Couples Love It

Here are just a few reasons why symbolic ceremonies are so popular with our couples:

1. You get total freedom.
Want to write your own vows? Include a dear friend as your celebrant? Blend cultures, faiths, or rituals? A symbolic ceremony lets you do all that and more. There are no rules—only what feels right to you.

2. It’s deeply emotional.
Because there’s no legal script to follow, every word is chosen with intention. Couples often tell me it was the most meaningful part of their day—free from pressure, full of heart.

3. It simplifies destination planning.
No embassy appointments, translations, or documents to worry about. For couples flying in from different parts of the world, this makes everything so much easier.

As one of my brides recently said, “We felt so relaxed and connected during our symbolic ceremony—it was just us, the sun, and our people.”

What It Can Look Like

The beauty of a symbolic ceremony is how personal and visually stunning it can be. Some of the most magical ceremonies I’ve planned have included:

  • Vows under a centuries-old olive tree in Tuscany
  • An intimate exchange overlooking the cliffs of Amalfi
  • Rituals like candle lighting or handfasting, tailored to each couple

You can choose the music, write your own words, and include anyone close to your heart. The location, the rituals, the feel—it’s all up to you.

Couple having a symbolic ceremony in Lake Como
Photo: Emily Jane Weddings

Is a Symbolic Ceremony Right for You?

Ask yourself:

  • Do you value emotion over formality?
  • Are you planning your wedding from abroad?
  • Do you dream of a ceremony that feels like you?

If you answered yes to any of those, then a symbolic ceremony might just be the perfect choice.

You deserve a moment that reflects your love—not just a process.

Let’s Make It Happen

At Mart Mari Bridal House, I specialize in creating symbolic ceremonies that are deeply personal, incredibly beautiful, and thoughtfully planned. Whether you’re dreaming of mountains, vineyards, seaside views or historic villas, I’ll help you craft a day that’s 100% yours.

Let’s start the journey together!

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